How A Pastor With Gay Parents Learned To Love Others Without Sacrificing Conviction

Cheri Smolich

5 Stars

July 5, 2016


  I  loved this book. Yet it was hard for me to review. Author Caleb Kaltenbach knows what he's talking about. He was raised in the LGBT community. Although he speaks mainly to Christians in this book, I believe everyone would enjoy reading it. He gives us a glimpse from the inside.
   Caleb's parents divorced when he was two years old. Shortly after that his mom met her lesbian partner. Caleb didn't find out that his dad was gay until he was right out of college. 
He lived with his moms and spent weekends with his dad.
 He
mentions some of his encounters as a boy with "mean-spirited, hateful people" claiming to be Christians. Caleb was nine years old when his lesbian mother and her partner, Vera, took him to his first Gay Pride parade. People participating in the parade and watching were yelled at, called names and harassed. Some of it was extremely cruel. Caleb says he thinks many Christians have some apologizing to do to the LGBT community for social media rants, inappropriate jokes, street signs, assumptions, and some for just being plain mean. 
  What I liked about Messy Grace is that Caleb's writing is not at all "preachy." In fact, it contains a lot of light humor. It's a very easy, compelling read. God has used this book to change my heart.....not my Christian beliefs or principles, but my opinions and my attitudes toward those involved in homosexuality.  He has replaced not hate (I've never hated gay people), but ignorance, with love. Every human being is created in the image of God. To demean that image is to wound another human being in the worst way.